how to get a date with sari locker

so you want to date sari locker? join the club. imagine yourself an attractive twenty-something who knows more about sex than just about anyone on the planet. see the line forming?

still, there may be hope for all of us lapdogs. sari is looking. "the biggest challenge for me right now is finding someone to be in love with forever and to have a baby," she says.





not scared off yet? ok, here are the rules. first of all, sari doesn't date anyone she meets at one of her lectures or adoring fans who write in. "i don't go out with people like that because i'm always suspicious that they're interested in me because they think i know a lot about sex. usually, i go out with people who just want to know me," she says.

a few other things. she expects flowers by the second date. and don't reveal too much to soon. "don't start talking about your ex on the first date or your family problems. and don't ask a question if you might not want to know the answer. if you're not prepared for an exceedingly large number, don't ask someone how many people they've slept with," she said.





that's not to say that sari's slept with a lot of people. "i actually tend to be fairly conservative. i am more inclined to wait to become involved sexually until i develop a long-term relationship with somebody," she said. and that's about all she has to say on the subject of her personal life. "i find that if i talk about my sex life, people think one of two things. they think 'i'm not normal because i don't like to do the same things that this sex educator does,' or they think 'i can't believe she does that! she's a sex educator, and she should know better,'" she explained.

still interested? here's the bottom line: "i'm most attracted to men who are as excited about their career as i am about mine," she said. "that's a really great quality, when i feel proud of him in the same way that he feels proud of me."

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